Sometimes living feels like dying. It happens when everything around you is full of toxicity. You feel worthless if you keep on getting fired at any jobs you applied. You feel emotional pain when someone who you trusted very much suddenly betrays you. And you probably feel like dying when you lose someone very important to you. Those just fall on loneliness feeling and worse, it could lead to depression. Hope will still be there for you even after waking up from a morning of despair.
Most the times, a human cannot predict those tragic events that will occur in life. Just like a storm, it brings destruction. Those events can break you into small pieces that sometimes, putting those back together takes years to be fixed. Many happenings could indeed change you either in better or worst manner. When a surgeon got into an accident, causing him to lose his arms, it is really depressing on his part. That example shows coping up after learning that you cannot do things you like to do anymore is not an easy task.
For example, an ace basketball player was involved in a car accident. And his legs were damaged on that incident. As a result, he missed the finals in Nationals and his team was defeated. That will really be devastating and desolating in his part and perhaps that moment will keep on haunting him.
Not only losing someone can put you to despair. Even a society can kill you. One accidental mistake then everyone started to bully and discriminate you. That is what happening in reality now especially in social media. When the whole world started to hate you for just one mistake, probably you will totally shut down from your surroundings because of it.
Avoiding everyone so you can just be alone is a way to cope up. However, choosing to remain in that state always would direct you to something worse. You cannot live like that forever. If you wanted to survive on that desolation, help yourself then.
Everyone experiencing that kind of emotion wanted it to fade. But how will that be achievable if you have no willingness to move forward? If you choose to remain that state, you may reach to a severe state to the point that nothing can help you anymore.
When you lost someone, cry and never hold back those tears. Allow that sadness and pain to enter your system and accept it. Acceptance would make things easier, however, do not make some actions to adhere that feeling. In other words, inflicting some physical pain in yourself will not greatly help. Just accept those feelings and let it out.
Crying forever will not really help. That is why, you also need to stop and think about what is good for yourself. Moving on could absolutely take you long. Nevertheless, you should not hurry yourself with that process like getting another partner to heal fast. No. Take things slowly so you could figure out if your heart is no longer in pain, Once, it happens you may start again.
It takes time and willingness to stand up again. Life is always unfair. The only thing you can do is to fight against the unfair system and not be swallowed by your darkness.
Most the times, a human cannot predict those tragic events that will occur in life. Just like a storm, it brings destruction. Those events can break you into small pieces that sometimes, putting those back together takes years to be fixed. Many happenings could indeed change you either in better or worst manner. When a surgeon got into an accident, causing him to lose his arms, it is really depressing on his part. That example shows coping up after learning that you cannot do things you like to do anymore is not an easy task.
For example, an ace basketball player was involved in a car accident. And his legs were damaged on that incident. As a result, he missed the finals in Nationals and his team was defeated. That will really be devastating and desolating in his part and perhaps that moment will keep on haunting him.
Not only losing someone can put you to despair. Even a society can kill you. One accidental mistake then everyone started to bully and discriminate you. That is what happening in reality now especially in social media. When the whole world started to hate you for just one mistake, probably you will totally shut down from your surroundings because of it.
Avoiding everyone so you can just be alone is a way to cope up. However, choosing to remain in that state always would direct you to something worse. You cannot live like that forever. If you wanted to survive on that desolation, help yourself then.
Everyone experiencing that kind of emotion wanted it to fade. But how will that be achievable if you have no willingness to move forward? If you choose to remain that state, you may reach to a severe state to the point that nothing can help you anymore.
When you lost someone, cry and never hold back those tears. Allow that sadness and pain to enter your system and accept it. Acceptance would make things easier, however, do not make some actions to adhere that feeling. In other words, inflicting some physical pain in yourself will not greatly help. Just accept those feelings and let it out.
Crying forever will not really help. That is why, you also need to stop and think about what is good for yourself. Moving on could absolutely take you long. Nevertheless, you should not hurry yourself with that process like getting another partner to heal fast. No. Take things slowly so you could figure out if your heart is no longer in pain, Once, it happens you may start again.
It takes time and willingness to stand up again. Life is always unfair. The only thing you can do is to fight against the unfair system and not be swallowed by your darkness.
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